Sunday, September 30, 2012

A WEEKEND WITH LENA

This week we had the humbling privilage of having Sasha Pivnev’s little sister stay with us for the weekend. It might not seem like a big deal on the surface but for Lena and Sasha, it was more than just siblings hanging out.

Until about a month ago, Sasha hadn’t seen his 12 year old sister in about 5 years. She wasn’t born until after he was sent to the orphanage and she had always lived at home with her parents. Geographically they’ve never been close so they haven’t ever had much relationship. Sasha has wanted to get to know her and help her for some time. Earlier this year a pastor at church, not knowing, asked him if he had a little sister. When Sasha answered yes, the pastor told him that he needed to help her. When he went to visit her in August, Sasha found out that she has been in the Konotop orphanage for the past two years. 


This past Thursday we all took a train to Konotop, a bus to the orphanage, and Sasha introduced us to his little sister. We were so excited when Sasha was able to sign her out of school that day and found out he could even sign her out for the whole weekend and bring her to Sumy!

Chelsea, Anika, Melissa, and Sasha of Open Arms with Lena (center)


From Friday morning to Sunday afternoon Lena came on her first visit to Sumy. Sasha and our team spent time with her at the Open Arms Home, loving on her and breaking her out of her shell. She was initially very shy and would barely say much to any of us. Within about 6 hours she was asking us if we could take her all summer to stay with us. We all had a lot of fun pouring love and gifts on her. She giggled at nearly everything her brother did or said. She loved having Melissa curl her hair, eating Nutella by the spoonful, and cuddling in bed before she went to sleep.


Left: The girls of Open Arms with Lena
Right: Melissa curling Lena's hair

Lena also experienced a lot of firsts with us - first time on both an elevator and escalator, first pancake, and first time bowling! She lit up when we took her to a roller rink and skated around for the full hour with a beaming smile, giggling at anyone who fell. :)

At the roller rink

Anika, Lena, and Melissa at the bowling alley

We were so blessed to help facilitate a relationship between Sasha and his little sister and to pour God’s love on her this weekend! We look forward to continue visiting her and having her visit on weekends. We can’t wait to see what God will do in her life.

Sasha and Lena

Friday, September 28, 2012

TRUE FAMILY

We met Dusya over seven years ago at the Pravdinska orphanage and have had the honor of walking alongside her as she transitioned out of the orphanage and into motherhood. She has navigated this transition with utter grace, determination, and love despite having no example of a mother in her own life. She completed the 9th grade six years ago and now has two beautiful children - Vala (five years old) and Andre who just recently turned one. 

Last week we joined Dusya and her family to celebrate Andre's first birthday. We stayed true to many Open Arms birthday traditions by making a personalized cake, bringing plenty of gifts, and taking lots of pictures. We also got to participate in some Ukrainian birthday traditions as well: a table full of food and a ceremonial first hair cut. 

Clockwise from top left:
Andre's birthday cake, homemade and decorated by the Open Arms team; Dusya and Andre with his godparents, Sasha and Anika of Open Arms; Andre takes his first bite of his first birthday cake;
Andre with his loving mom, Dusya

Other relatives joined for the festivities, but were sadly very drunk which made us all the more thankful to be able to be there and support Dusya. Over the years, she has told us  many times how we are her true family; an honor that is hard to describe. We were glad to be the family that day that truly supports her and her children. It brought us so much joy to watch her with Andre - he is very much a mama's boy and she is a excellent mother, so full of love for both of her kids. 


Open Arms looks forward to continuing birthday traditions and being a support and extended family to Andre as he grows up.   

Tuesday, June 26, 2012

SUMMER CAMP 2012: REFLECTION

Summer Camp is an amazing time for connection. As trade schools shut down, the kids become nomads with no real place to call home. Our time together offered a place of safety, refuge, and fun to help them process, make plans, and experience God’s love.


HIGHLIGHT: BONFIRE
Our final night was accompanied by a bonfire; an Open Arms tradition that proved extra special this year. Vova, our speaker for the duration of camp, hammered in on the reality of eternal life and God’s desire for us to join Him in heaven – “change doesn’t happen overnight, it is a journey with Christ, but a journey well worth it.” Following his message, Vova laid a large stick on the ground as a line and said that a relationship with God is a decision, much like crossing from one side of this line to the other. As the kids made decisions, we all huddled together for a time of prayer with them. 
What ensued was a beautiful movement among the kids and leaders. If the kids desired, they were welcome to step into the middle of our circle and we would pray for them. Each kid made their way as we laid hands and prayed for their futures, their hearts, their healing, and their process with Christ. The conversations that followed these prayers were transformational! For some the battle wages of “I hear so much about God, but I just don’t know that I believe.” For others they were full of the emotional excitement of the night and desire more connection to church and to believers. But for those few who were deeply moved, their tones remained serious and their questions deep. We can’t wait to see how the conversations continue after a beautiful night like this!

WHAT DOES A DAY AT CAMP LOOK LIKE?
  • MORNING: Wake up, clean up, and breakfast! We follow breakfast with a time of worship and a lesson based on camp’s specific theme. This Summer, camp was centered on the theme of “Everlasting Life” - John 3:16; such a core, basic truth of God’s love that these kids have never had a chance to learn and accept in their lives.
  • MID-DAY: After morning meeting, we have craft time and then some free time until lunch. Meals are such a gift at camp and we love offering a plate-full of “seconds” for these kids who have had to steal food at times in their lives to survive. Once they are full from lunch, the kids enjoy a time of recreation and swimming. They seem to have endless energy, and we usually have to bring the soccer playing, volleyball games, and swimming to a halt as evening approaches.
  • EVENING: The kids’ energy is refreshed with a big dinner, and then they head to our night meeting – a time of singing and another lesson/discussion.
  • NIGHT: Games are played well into the night after all is said and done and this year’s bonfire, movie night, and ice cream night were perfect ways to top off amazing days.
Throughout it all, God seemed to use every detail to bring us all closer together and allowed us abundant opportunities to share His love all the way down to checking each other for ticks after each adventure outdoors. Ticks were found, movies were watched, popcorn eaten, and ice cream devoured; all in all good times were had and God moved through it all! 

SPOTLIGHT: SASHA TRETYAKOV
Sasha Tretyakov graduated just last May from the Pravdinska orphanage, so this is his first summer with no set place for him to be. He has no family to turn to and has been in the orphanage for most of his life. In light of these realities, this summer is extra difficult as he wanders from friend to friend; with no real “home” or family to return to. Camp was a time of relief and joy for Sasha and the bonfire brought about a special moment in his journey specifically. Following the times of prayer, Sasha was clearly hit by what had taken place and spent the time after discussing Christianity and his desire to live a better life with some of our leaders. At the end of the conversation, Sasha felt a deep conviction to be baptized and the seriousness in his demeanor showed how much this night had impacted him. We look forward to continue to encourage Sasha in his journey; he plans on spending his weekend here at the Open Arms Home and can’t wait for church on Sunday. We hope his connections only get furthered with our Ukrainian team and their church here in Sumy as he plans to transfer trade schools this fall to our very city! God is moving and we are blessed to be a part of it!



THANK YOU
We were overwhelmed by the support that poured in to make this Summer Camp possible! The words of encouragement and financial donations played such a huge role and we can’t thank you all enough. Due to the fact that these kids are scattered throughout the region facing various circumstances, some kids that were sponsored were unable to attend at the last minute (court dates, sibling issues, etc.). Though their spots were paid for (and hygiene packs are waiting) we look forward to using the rest of their sponsorship to get them to Sumy and connected to church more before the summer ends. Summer camp brings about so much momentum in ministry with these kids and the swim floaties, sports equipment, and projector screen are already proving long-lasting tools to reach this kids and bring joy to their summer months. Thank you again!

WHAT YOU PROVIDED:
  • Camp Scholarships
  • Hygiene Packages
  • Extra-special activities (an ice cream party, a bonfire, and a picnic by the river)
  • New recreation equipment
  • Projector screen for Open Arms’ use in ongoing ministry
  • Funding for graduate ministry activity throughout the rest of the summer

Wednesday, June 13, 2012

OUR SPONSORED GRADUATES!


Camp begins TOMORROW (!) and thanks to you, all of these beautiful kids are sponsored to attend. Join us in praying that it will be a special time of fun, fellowship, rest, and growth for each one of our campers. As the graduates make their way to Sumy, please pray that they won't run into any obstacles and that each one will arrive safely. Thank you, again, for making camp possible for our graduates. We can't wait to share photos and stories from camp when we return!